Sometimes life catches you by surprises and throws things at you that you don't expect. One of those surprises happened last week to our family...his name is Benjamin! Ben was born September 8th, 2009 at 6:11PM by emergency c-section. He weighed 4 pounds and 1 ounce, measuring 15 3/4 inches long.
Ben was actually due on October 7th, so he was 4 weeks and 1 day early. I had been doing fetal kick counts since my third trimester began to make sure that he was moving enough and to make sure he didn't stop moving. On Tuesday the 8th, he moved at 5:00am and had not moved again by the time 1:30pm rolled around. I drank water, ate breakfast, drank a soda...but nothing happened. Josh begged me to call the doctor to find out what I needed to do, so gave in to make him feel better. They had me come into the office and hooked me up to a monitor to watch me for a little bit. I figured I would just be sent right back home, but I was sure wrong. After being hooked up for a little bit, we noticed a couple drastic drops in his heart rate. The doctor decided at this point to send me to the hospital for extended monitoring.
Josh and I got to the hospital around 3:00 or a little after, and had been hooked up to the monitor for not much more than 30 minutes when we finally talked to the on call doctor. He informed us that we would be having a c-section right away because the baby was in distress and we needed to get him out as soon as possible. He said he wasn't sure what was causing the distress, but we would obviously be able to find out when he opened me up. When I went in for surgery, he found out that Ben had been in so much stress in my uterus that he had had a bowel movement that he was smothering in. I apparently have a septum (
a dividing wall inside the uterine cavity) in my uterus that made it very dangerous for Ben to be in there and made it to where he didn't have near enough room to grow. The doctor told us that if we had waited 2 more hours, Ben would not have made it and we were very very lucky. He also told me that Carter (my 4 year old) was lucky to have survived as well with my problem.
I have been told that in order to have anymore children, I will have to have the septum removed. So I guess that will be happening fairly soon as well...just in case.
That is story of the birth of Benjamin. ; ) I know that some of you may have wondered why he was born so early, and now you know!
(Please advise any woman that you know that is pregnant or planning to have children that they NEED to do fetal kick counts in your third trimester, no matter WHAT! These saved Ben! If I had not been doing this exercise, I would never have known that there was any cause for concern and would have lost my baby.)